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    This is the latest article I wrote for the Bali Times:

    Many expats on Bali have been around long enough to be familiar with Balinese compounds, and in particular those notable ancestor temples called kemulan, or taksu. They are immediately distinguishable by their black roof, made of duk, and the normally elaborate wood carving employed in their creation. They are amazing works of art in their own right, carefully crafted, and only made by the most trusted of hands. Expats married to Balinese are most assuredly aware of these temples, just as they are aware that ancestor worship, an animist portion of Hindu/Dharma, is an essential aspect of Balinese culture. I hesitate to use the word Balinese religion, as that falls short of what Hindu/Dharma means. Noticeably absent on all of these temples is names. Not coincidentally, names are also absent in their cemeteries which serve as temporary collection depositories for recently deceased villagers awaiting their cremation.

    Last week, we attended a melaspas (dedication ceremony), for a kemulan and taksu that very close friends had recently completed. We have known these friends for many years, and as with us, he is western, and his wife is Balinese. As with Eri and I, they have also been blessed with wonderful children that they raise to encompass the best aspects of their unique cultures. Just kidding around, I asked my host, “which one (ancestor temple) has your name on it?” My joking curiosity was to know where to place the offerings of beers and cigars, should he pre-decease me. Telling him that, we both enjoyed a good laugh. The right answer to my “tongue in check” question was of course, “none.” His name will never be engraved on a small brass plaque, and fixed on any of his ancestral temples, nor will my name be immortalized on any of our ancestral temples either. While we are both members of adat in each of our respective banjars, and thus will be cremated in a banjar cremation ceremony, once our ashes are purified in the sea, our names will dissipate much like the cloud of our ashes. In Bali, ancestors are viewed in an entirely cosmic/spiritual sense. Once departed from the world of man, or what the Balinese call buwah, their names no longer have any significance.

    As disrespectful as my joking question may seem, in the mind of the Balinese, it is not at all disrespectful. Balinese high priests, priests, holy men, and balians are remarkably open, and capable of enjoying the humor inherent in the irony with the clashes of cultures we encounter. Their acceptance is uncanny. It is completely absent of the stoic, “you will go to hell” words or the look on the face one might expect from a Minister, Rabbi, or Catholic priest after hearing such blasphemy. Indeed, any expat who has taken the time to participate in Balinese temple ceremonies can easily appreciate the vast differences of “church” as they are likely accustomed. But, this passage into complete obscurity upon death is a tough nut for me to swallow, especially when my own ancestors are recorded and “immortalized” on numerous tomb stones, public records, and genealogies. I think that for many westerners, the likely prospect of the next generation of your offspring never knowing your name is at best unsettling, if not frightful.

    Aside from the fear of complete obscurity shortly after death, there is the irony of the incredible costs of having these ancestor temples built. Duk is about three to five times more expensive than quality alang alang. My cries to just paint alang, alang with black spray paint, has always fallen on deaf ears in my family. While a top quality bale can easily be built for under Rp 10 million, a top quality three door kemulan of less than half the size of a bale can easily be twice as expensive. My awareness of the high cost of ancestor temples occurred during an event in our village several years ago when the usual peace and quiet was abruptly broken by the frantic ringing of our banjar kulkul drum. A fire had broken out in one our family’s compound. It turned out that carelessly placed incense had set the duk on their kemulan ablaze. The response of the villagers was immediate and the fire was quickly extinguished. Later on I remarked to my wife that the turn out for such a minor fire by the village was impressive. It was then she explained to me just how costly those ancestor temples are, not to mention how unwise it is to upset the ancestors with carelessness.

    None of the rites of passage that are so entwined in Balinese culture is more expensive than death. Considering the combined costs of cremation ceremonies, ancestor temples and their maintenance, daily offerings and ceremonies at the ancestor temples, namely during Galungan and Kuningan, the average Balinese spends considerably more that the average westerner. Factor in the variations of economic scales, and the disparity is truly mind boggling. You’d think that after all of that, one could at least have their name preserved somewhere in the compound! The next time I see our high priest, I am going to ask her about this. She has been more than tolerant of my western quirks in the past, so the chances are pretty good she’ll give her thumbs to this minor request. While I’m at it, I think I’ll also ask her about what I’d like for a daily offering. Forget about the flowers and a dab of rice, how about a little shot of vodka and one Sampoerna? I wonder what she’ll think about that?

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    Roy had a big chuckle :lol: and simultaniously felt a sense of amazement myself when it comes to the rituals concerning death in Bali. The costs are staggering considering the economic situation most Balinese families face. Seems miraculous families maintain their family temples, prepare offerings, cremation, etc. etc. Unbelievable. Of course, your take on not having ones name appear anywhere after one death is unsettling. :D Yet, the Balinese philosophy permeates every aspect of their lives...Perhaps we westerners who become intertwined with our Balinese families, leave some essense of ourselves within them to pass on to the generations to come. Of course, you will not be forgotten since you have three beautiful children and their lives are so enriched to have you as their father. Your spirit will continue to live on in them!!!

    Great article!!!

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    Many expats on Bali have been around long enough to be familiar with Balinese compounds, and in particular those notable ancestor temples called kemulan, or taksu. They are immediately distinguishable by their black roof, made of duk, and the normally elaborate wood carving employed in their creation. They are amazing works of art in their own right, carefully crafted, and only made by the most trusted of hands.
    Hi Roy,

    Unfortunately I have to correct you in this regard. As a Balinese, I cannot let this misrepresentation slips by. I think it is also imperative that the readers know a little bit better about this topic than what came across from reading your posting.

    So let me clarify a couple of things:

    First off as far as I know, Sanggah Kemulan and Sanggah Taksu are NEVER for dedication to the ancestors!! You can perhaps check this with Eri to confirm that in your village the custom is not starkly different from the rest!

    A Balinese traditional compound is divided into several sections: Sanggah, Natah and Teba. Sanggah is where the family temple is located. Natah is the courtyard of the living area made up of several bales and kitchen, while Teba is the very back of the compound where traditionally families put their pigs etc but nowadays it is where toilet/bathroom and washing facilities are located.

    So what is Sanggah or Merajan for high caste Balinese families? Sanggah is the family temple where the family conducts their offerings and prayers for Ida Sang Hyang Widhi (GOD), the guardian gods and the ancestors. Sanggah refers both to the compound where many different shrines are located as well as the individual shrine itself. In southern Bali, Sanggah compound will be located in the North-East corner of the family compound – that is towards Mt. Agung. In the north it will be South East I suppose. There are other shrines located in a typical family compound: several common ones are Duguls: two Duguls can be found at just after the entrance to the house and also one located at the North-West corner of the compound, (a Dugul is dedicated to the guardian of the compound). Many families also have more shrines scattered around the compounds usually in the 8 directions of the wind.

    So in a typical family temple compound such as my parents’ place, there should be several shrines including a Sanggah Piasan, Sanggah Taksu, Padmasana, Sanggah Kemulan and Ratu Ngurah(s). Below is a photo of my parent’s Sanggah. (left of the screen is a Piasan, next to it is Taksu, next to it is a temporary shrine in place for the Padmasana, next to it is the Kemulan and the far right is a Ratu Ngurah). This is a very small family temple.



    In a larger family compound (where there have been at least two or three generations living there), there will also be separate shrines for the ancestors as undoubtedly some elders had passed away. If one then goes back to the family compound of several generations back (for example where my great, great, great grandfather used to live), one can then have a Sanggah Gede or Merajan Gede. Here there are many many shrines in the family temple compound – there can be 20 or more including a small Meru (three tiers shrine) and a shrine in the middle.

    Back to the original post about Sanggah Kemulan and Taksu – they are essentially what every Balinese household should have in their family temple. Sanggah Kemulan is not an ancestor shrine, rather it is the shrine to worship the God as Tri Murti, the three manifestations of God in Hinduism. Brahma is placed on the left side, Siwa or Batara Guru is in the middle and, Wishnu is placed on the right side of the three rooms shrine. Sanggah Taksu is the place of worship of God as the guiding light and energy, charisma for the family, where one seeks divine intervention from God. If I try to define Taksu it means something like charisma, energy, the essence of a person, family or country. Sorry can’t exactly translate it into English.

    However, some families might not have the luxury of having a family temple – such as those living in the city. In this case, they would often only have one shrine – a Padmasana (Bert has one at his place! And a Dugul at the entrance to his house).

    Oh and not all shrines must be roofed with Duk or Ijuk – made from though protective layers of a particular palm species. Sorry I don’t know the English expression nor the name of this palm. It can be roofed with tiles, sirat (wooden sheets), or alang-alang, some even used corrugated iron sheet (I have seen many of these in the north).

    Not coincidentally, names are also absent in their cemeteries which serve as temporary collection depositories for recently deceased villagers awaiting their cremation.
    What do you mean by this statement?
    Yes the cemeteries are only for temporary burial places for the dead until the family can afford to hold a cremation ceremony. They don’t have to be buried as cremation can be conducted straight after a person dies, but as the expense is very large, many families are burying the dead for several years until such fund can be saved for a cremation at home or communally in the banjar. Priests are not allowed to be buried, they must be cremated straight away after death. They can lay in state in the ceremonial bale while preparation for their cremations are made (as my mother was a priest, her cremation was done like this).

    In saying this, although the grave is temporary and no elaborate and permanent head-stone is created, a small head-stone is placed on the grave with the person’s name, date of birth and date of passed away.

    Just kidding around, I asked my host, “which one (ancestor temple) has your name on it?” My joking curiosity was to know where to place the offerings of beers and cigars, should he pre-decease me. Telling him that, we both enjoyed a good laugh. The right answer to my “tongue in check” question was of course, “none.” His name will never be engraved on a small brass plaque, and fixed on any of his ancestral temples, nor will my name be immortalized on any of our ancestral temples either
    After being cremated the deified spirit of the ancestors are invited back to the family compound and worship in the family temple. If the family does not have an ancestors shrine called a Pesirepan (Saren), the ancestors will be worshiped in the Sanggah Piasan. However, if the family compound is large enough to accommodate another shrine, then one will be built – usually it is located next to the Sanggah Taksu and it is a two rooms shrine. This will be for all the ancestors – recent, past and future. So individual person who died and cremated does not have his/her own shrine of worship!

    Roy, you know about Niskala, so you should understand this better than anyone. When a Balinese (Hindu) person passed away, cremated and finally purified – he/she losses all earthly identities including name and becomes a deified spirit called Pitara (for male) or Pitari (female) for the family, which can bestow blessings and/or if you are naughty troubles.

    Of course, you can still do a family tree to preserve your genealogy for your future offsprings. So you are not forgotten!

    Well, I hope I have clarified something about Balinese family temple.
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    Kadek: Thank you for your balinese perspective on Roy's post. Very informative and interesting. How often do you return home?

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    Hi Kadek,

    And always great to hear from you.

    I think the problem here is from the intention of the article I wrote as a column for The Bali Times which was meant to be entertainment, as opposed to presenting complete details including the difference to be found among the castes.

    The whole point of the piece was simply to offer this particular aspect of culture clash...meaning the differences in the Balinese death rites to what westerners are generally accustomed. This obviously required condensing and generalizing the details, from the point of view of space limitations in the paper itself. The main audience of The Bali Times is much like that of The Jakarta Post, i.e., the expatriate community.

    Sure, I am well aware of the many differences to be found from one village to another, as well as the differences often encountered between castes. For me to get into all the exceptions and differences would have overwhelmed the article’s intent, which was to simply note humor and irony with the differences I have encountered between the customs of my wife’s culture and that of my own.

    I hope that the majority of Balinese who may read this piece are able to take it in the spirit it was written, understanding that its sole purpose was to humorously savor the ironies of the cultural differences that mixed marriages often encounter.

    Cheers, and Eri and I hope to see you back in Bali again soon.

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    Hi Roy,

    Yes I gathered that the article was meant to be entertaining. But I can also see that you attempted to give insight in this humour. I do understand that and it is hard for non Balinese Hindu to understand the intricacies of our customs and culture.

    And as the token Balinese person in this forum, I just wanted to correct the misinformation about Sanggah Kemulan and Taksu. Giving reference to these shrines as places to worship ancestors is Wrong!

    and as I know you want to do too - we don't want to continue the misconceptions about Balinese culture - right? :wink:

    Hi Judy,

    I don't go home often enough. Last time was January 07. So, hopefully I will be able to go home soon again. Have to save some annual leaves first I guess.

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    “we don't want to continue the misconceptions about Balinese culture - right?”
    Absolutely we do not. Interestingly enough, my wife had no problems with my article, nor have the several Balinese I asked to read it since it was first published yesterday.

    Also, there is this from page 273 of Fred’s book, Bali, Sekala & Niskala:

    “The kemulan (or kemulan taksu) is sometimes called the shrine of origin, and is a shrine for the deified ancestors.”

    So, I don’t know how to clear up the confusion but it could just be a matter of semantics, variations from one village to another, or caste related.

    In any event, and with all due respect, I find it hardly worth the effort to split hairs over an article that like I said, was intended as entertainment and humor. Kindest regards from both Eri and I.

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